Myth, 9

~ You Need More Self-Esteem ~

Introduction  ~  Rather than more self-esteem our real need is for more self-worth based upon God’s Word.  In fact, sometimes efforts to build self-esteem have the result of self-destruction.  It is interesting to note that the Bible teaches nothing about self-esteem but plenty about self-worth. 

Key Passages  ~  “In the image of God He made man [you]” (Genesis 9:6b).  “I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well” (Psalm 139:14).  “When I consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, the moon and the stars, which You have ordained, what is man that You are mindful of him, and the son of man that You visit him?  For You have made him a little lower than the angels, and You have crowned him with glory and honor” (Psalm 8:3-5).  First, our self-worth comes from God’s creation of mankind. 

Second, our self-worth comes from God’s great love for us.  “And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of Man be lifted up, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.  For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.  For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved” (John 3:14-17).  Think about that!  How could you possibly be worth more than for God to do that for you personally?

The Reality  ~  God allowed His only begotten Son to die for your sins—no matter how much of a sinner you are.  The Apostle Paul before his conversion persecuted God’s people, but God loved him, saved him, and used him mightily for His kingdom.  But Paul recognized these great realities and could say, “I thank Christ Jesus our Lord who has enabled me, because He counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry, although I was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and an insolent man; but I obtained mercy because I did it ignorantly in unbelief.  And the grace of our Lord was exceedingly abundant, with faith and love which are in Christ Jesus.  This is a faithful saying and worthy of all acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am chief.  However, for this reason I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might show all longsuffering, as a pattern to those who are going to believe on Him for everlasting life.  Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, to God who alone is wise, be honor and glory forever and ever.  Amen” (1 Timothy 1:12-17).

The Results  ~  Self-esteem varies wildly based upon factors such as our successes, the faces we put forward in public, and how others consequently view us.  However, our self-worth never fluctuates because it is based on solid facts of who we are from a Biblical perspective.

The Bottom Line  ~  As a Christian our value is not based on what we do or what others think about us—it is based on what the God who made us says about us and what He has done for us. 

~ Robert Lloyd Russell, ABUNDANT LIFE NOW

NOTES:

(1)     The current TOP 10 ALN posts are listed at the very bottom of this home page.

(2)     There is an INDEX of all ALN posts accessed by scrolling down the left column.

(3)     You may LINK to any ALN posts on your own blog or website. 

(4)     You may COPY any ALN post, but please credit ALN as the source by prominently displaying the following statement:  Reprinted from “Abundant Life Now,” a free blog which offers inspiring moments, thought-provoking comments, and solid Biblical insight at http://RobertLloydRussell.blogspot.com/ .